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It"ssodifficulttofollowtheupsanddownsofa2-year-old.Onemomenthe"sbeamingandfriendly;thenexthe"ssullen(愠怒的)andweepy,oftenfornoapparentreason.Thesemoodswings,however,arejustpartofgrowingup.Theyaresignsoftheemotionalchangestakingplaceasyourchildstrugglestotakecontrolofactions,impulses,feelingsandhisbody.
Atthisage,yourchildwantstoexploretheworldandseekadventure.Asaresult,he"llspendmostofhistimetestinglimits,hisown,yoursandhisenvironment"s.Unfortunately,hestilllacksmanyoftheskillsrequiredforthesafeaccomplishmentofeverythingheneedstodo,andheoftenwillneedyoutoprotecthim.
Whenheoverstepsalimitandispulledback,heoftenreactswithangerandfrustration,possiblywithatempertantrum(发脾气)orsullenrage.Hemayevenstrikebackbyhitting,bitingorkicking.Atthisage,hedoesn"thavemuchcontroloverhisemotionalimpulses,sohisangerandfrustrationtendtoeruptsuddenlyintheform.ofcrying,hittingorscreaming.It"shisonlywayofdealingwiththedifficultrealitiesoflife.Hemayevenactoutinwaysthatunintentionallyharmhimselforothers.It"sallpartofbeing2.
It"snotuncommonfortoddlerstobeangelswhenyou"renotaround,becausetheydon"ttrustotherpeopleenoughtotesttheirlimits.Butwithyou,yourtoddlerwillbewillingtotrythingsthatmaybedangerousordifficult,becauseheknowsyou"llrescuehimifhegetsintotrouble.
Whateverprotestpatternhehasdevelopedaroundtheendofhisfirstyearwillprobablypersistforsometime.Forinstance,whenyou"reabouttoleavehimwithasitter,hemaybecomeangryandthrowatantruminanticipationoftheseparation.Orhemaywhimper,orwhineandclingtoyou.orhecouldsimplybecomesubduedandsilent.Whateverhisbehavior,trynottooverreactbyscoldingorpunishinghim.Thebesttacticistoreassurehimbeforeyouleavethatyouwillbebackand,whenyoureturn,topraisehimforbeingsopatientwhileyouweregone.Takesolaceinthefactthatseparationsshouldbemucheasierbythetimehe"s3yearsold.
The"upsanddowns"(Para.1)ofa2year-oldrefersto______.
A.hisfallingdownandstandingup
B.hissuccessesandfailuresindoingthings
C.hisgoodandbadtraits
D.hismoodswings
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